When ten questions are really just one
A common mistake is writing a long list of questions that all mean virtually the same thing. For example: “Does he love me?”, “What are his feelings?”, “What does he feel for me?”, “Is there love on his side?”, and “How much does he love me?” The wording changes but the underlying issue does not.
You can often replace the whole series with one clear question: “How does he feel about me at the moment, and what is happening with those feelings?” If needed, follow it with a different subject, such as the context of the relationship or its prospects, rather than asking for the same answer again.
Do not keep asking because you disliked the answer
Tarot is not an interrogation in which you keep questioning the cards until they give you a convenient version of events. Repeating a painful question immediately tends to make the reading less informative. Instead of exploring what is happening, the person starts searching for confirmation of what they hope is true.
There is a subtler problem too: questions that assume the desired outcome has already happened. Suppose someone asks “Does he love me?” and receives a negative interpretation. Their next question is “When will we finally marry and be together forever?” The second question assumes the very thing the first answer called into doubt.
Leave room for an answer you did not expect
In my practice, my deck sometimes seems to respond particularly sharply when someone tries to steer the interpretation toward a predetermined result. I understand that as a characteristic of my own work with the cards, not a universal law for every deck or reader.
A more useful question is “What are the prospects for this relationship as it stands?” rather than “When will he realize I am his destiny?” The first allows several possible outcomes. The second demands just one.
Being ready for an uncomfortable interpretation does not mean you must believe every word of it. It means considering what the reading suggests, comparing it with real circumstances, and retaining the right to make your own decisions.